Head Scratcher: 1 — Your Mom Was Wrong by Greg Silva · Published March 6, 2011 · Updated November 17, 2018 A version of this piece was recorded for the SRP Radio Podcast. Stream or Download Most Men Do Not Only Want One Thing Gay? I’m not even happy! How come when a man doesn’t want to have sex with a woman he barely knows, it’s either: “He must find me repulsive!” or “He must be gay!”? Really, ladies . . . are those the only two choices?