Women Who Work Hard To Avoid Looking At Men by Greg Silva · Published May 20, 2011 · Updated November 18, 2018 A version of this piece was recorded for the SRP Radio Podcast. Stream or Download I Avoid Women Who Avoid Looking At Me I’m not looking at you! Can you tell? Ladies . . . if you’re gonna work so hard to avoid looking at a guy, such that he can see what you’re doing . . . . . . then really, what’s the point? If he’s so repulsive that you can’t look at him . . . . . . or if he’s so hot that you can’t look at him . . . . . . either way, you’re making him the center of your attention.