The Pleasure Of Your Company
First Date Surprise
Ladies, if you insist on a man paying for your dinner simply for the pleasure of your company, and your company isn’t pleasurable, then shouldn’t you have to reimburse him?
The View From Below
I always offer to pay for my portion of the meal / activity. It makes me feel better.
I’ve had women offer to pay. I let them. And then they won’t go out with me again because I made them pay. They then tell all their friends what a horrifying experience it was to go out with me because they offered to pay and I actually let them.
On the first date, I go dutch. It’s easy, fair, and takes the pressure off. I don’t feel entitled to a meal because someone asks me out. YET, it IS nice for a man to grab the check and sort of ‘take charge’ when on the 2nd date.
On the first date, I go dutch. It’s easy, fair, and takes the pressure off. I don’t feel entitled to a meal because someone asks me out. YET, it IS nice for a man to grab the check and sort of ‘take charge’ when on the 2nd date.
I always offer to pay for my portion of the meal / activity. It makes me feel better.
I’ve had women offer to pay. I let them. And then they won’t go out with me again because I made them pay. They then tell all their friends what a horrifying experience it was to go out with me because they offered to pay and I actually let them.